Our body language reveals a lot more than we realize. Even something as simple as holding a pen a can tell you about yourself
It's funny how even the smallest actions we make can say quite a bit about us without us even realizing it. For example, find a pen and pick it up. Now, look at the way you're holding it. Why are you holding the way you did? Interesting question, right? Well, the way your body behaves when presented with certain stimuli is called body language. And the experts on the topic read these cues to know more about a person, the way they think, the traits they possess, and far more.
Similarly, the way you hold a pen or pencil could reveal what sort of person you are as your grip over it mirrors your personality. Here are some styles in which people hold their pen and what it says about them:
If you hold your pen this way, you're the kind of person who is analytical and likes to pay attention to detail. This trait of your comes from dealing with hard-hitting experiences that you have learned a lot from. It's also why when it comes to a relationship, you won't settle for anything less than the respect you deserve. That being said, when a partner shows you that they understand your value, you have no problems showing them your fun-loving, lighter side.
If you hold your pen this way, you're someone who's a bit of a mystery. You have an innate curiosity that won't let anything stop you from pursuing knowledge. This passion also transfers to how you live your life, and that is to the fullest and constantly seeking adventure. But while many might think you're flighty and unable stay grounded, it's your loved ones that know just how loyal and generous you are. They know how intense your emotions can be and how you tend to suffer in silence, but you push aside your own pain to the side to be everyone else's rock.
If you hold your pen this way, you're someone who relates to people easily. Your natural empathy draws people to you and makes it easier for them to share their burdens. But even while you may absorb their emotions, you also believe in letting go and living in the moment. This rare balance that you're able to achieve is why the partner you seek is someone who can not only be your shoulder to lean on but who can also enjoy the small moments with you.
If you hold your pen this way, you're someone for whom kindness and compassion come easily. Making people smile even when they don't feel good is an inspiring talent that you possess. Your loved ones know that you would drop everything to be there for them and love you for it. However, anyone who believes that this is a sign to walk all over you will be sorely mistaken. You wouldn't give up your tender heart but you won't tolerate anyone trying to trample it. You know you're stronger than that.Disclaimer : This article is for your entertainment / infotainment purposes.